Journey With Nikole

Okay, Storytime! See, I have a love-hate relationship with cold showers. I’ll get on a roll for a while, feeling energized and accomplished. Then, bam! The cozy allure of a hot shower wins me over, and I fall out of the cold shower routine. This morning was no different. Standing there, about to turn the knob, my mind went into full-on negotiation mode. “Nikole,” it said, in the most loving voice possible, “why the cold showers? Why not just stick with warm water or even cool water? It feels good, it gets you clean, and your mission accomplished. Cold showers are just pain you inflict on yourself and do you even know why? How about some gentle self-care instead?” See, I talk to myself a lot. Maybe a little too much sometimes. It can lead to some interesting breakthroughs, though! This time, a light bulb flickered on. “Because I don’t belong in the comfort zone,” I shot back, both to myself and the imaginary voice of warm-water bliss. Sure, comfort is nice to recharge, but I thrive on p...

Honestly, vocabulary wasn't exactly my strong suit in school. In fact, I pretty much coasted along, getting by with the bare minimum. Fun activities? Totally down! Boring memorization? No thanks! Looking back, I realize I was shortchanging myself. Who knew a bigger vocabulary could be such a game-changer? It wasn't until I was 40 that I finally decided to tackle reading a whole book. Full disclosure: before then, if I needed information from a book, I'd grab the Cliff Notes (remember those?) or, nowadays, just Google it. Reading the whole thing? Why bother, right? Wrong! Expanding my vocabulary was exactly the push I needed to open up a new world. Turning the Page on My Learning Journey So, how did I actually do it? It all started with a simple habit: taking notes while I read. Every time I stumbled upon a word I didn't know, I'd jot it down. Once I finished the book, it was dictionary time! Understanding the meaning wasn't enough – I wanted to use ...